When will family stop arguing

First of all I am tired of everybody not trying to accept Josh in our family we accepted wes now why can't do the same to Josh. And people are suppose to be happy about Chandi having her 3rd and josh's first I don't know about you I am so happy for her and our family needs to start looking at the positive and stop look at the negative
And another thing that is starting to bother me is that our famil don't know how to Stop arguing but that that's just my family :(